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Mating

Norman Rush · b. 1933 · United States

Why it matters

An unnamed, formidably intelligent American anthropologist narrates her courtship of a charismatic visionary building a utopian, women-run development community in the Kalahari. Rush's National Book Award winner makes courtship and utopian politics equally demanding, equally seductive subjects.

At a glance

romancephilosophical novel
Difficulty 7/10slow pace477 pages

Dense, allusive, argument-driven prose and a narrator's restless intelligence ask for sustained concentration.

Deep dive

A courtship narrated by a woman so relentlessly self-aware that falling in love becomes, in her own telling, just another argument she's determined to win honestly.

Written for readers who have finished the book. No plot recap, and nothing here is safe to read first.

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